Decision Making

A topic that has been on my mind lately - is the decision-making process and the tendency to rely heavily on others' opinions when making decisions. I believe it's important for us to reflect on this tendency and consider the role of independent decision-making.

Today the world is so interconnected, we are constantly bombarded with information and opinions with the touch of a button on a screen. We also have various other sources such as friends, family, colleagues, and the media. While seeking advice and gathering different perspectives can be valuable, it becomes a problem when we rely solely on others to make decisions that ultimately affect our own lives.

Dependence on others' opinions to make decisions can have several unfortunate consequences. Firstly, it can lead to a loss of personal agency and autonomy. When we constantly look to others for guidance, we undermine our own ability to think critically and trust our own judgment. Trusting oneself is a practice worth doing, it involves going within and slowing down all the thoughts and feel what is right in the body. Not trusting our intuition can erode our confidence in decision-making and leave us feeling disempowered.

Second, the opinions and advice we receive from others may not always align with our own values, goals, or circumstances. Every individual has a unique perspective shaped by their experiences, biases, and beliefs. Making decisions solely based on others' opinions may result in choices that do not reflect our true selves and what is best for us.

Continually, seeking validation from others can create a cycle of constant approval-seeking behavior. The need for external validation can hinder personal growth and hinder our ability to take risks or explore new opportunities. It can trap us in a perpetual state of uncertainty and indecisiveness, as we constantly seek reassurance from others before taking action.

To address this issue, strive to cultivate a sense of self-trust and develop decision-making skills. 

This involves actively seeking information and opinions from various sources, but ultimately taking ownership of our choices. By considering different perspectives and analyzing the available information, we can make decisions that align with our values. You need to remind yourself that it's only a decision, right or wrong it's just a decision. 

Building confidence in our decision-making abilities is a gradual process. It requires self-reflection, introspection, and sometimes taking calculated risks. However, by gradually reducing dependence on others' opinions, we can empower ourselves to make choices that are authentic to who we are and what we truly desire.

I encourage you to reflect on your own decision-making process and consider the extent to which you rely on others' opinions. Challenge yourself to trust your own judgment, gather information independently, and make choices based on your own values and priorities. Embracing independent decision-making will not only enhance personal growth but also enable us to take charge of our lives with confidence.